People Create Their Own Experiences

Hi – What’s working for you this week?

This week’s topic is – People create their own experiences.

Have you ever noticed how some people seem to be so lucky in life, they always seem to have the world at their feet, they appear to be successful at everything they do while other people never seem to really get going:  they aimlessly meander through life and never seem to accomplish anything.

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Neuro linguistic programming

Hi – What’s working for you this week?

This time I thought it would be great to introduce you to some NLP ( Neuro linguistic programming) presuppositions and how they can move you closer to your goal.

What’s NLP (Neuro linguistic programming) anyway?  (more…)

Know Where You’re Going

We have previously discussed the Five Principles for Success and one of those key points was to Know Your Outcome.

Knowing what you want is what it’s all about.  If you don’t know where you’re going, how will you know when you have arrived?

Recently I was talking with a young man and asked him where he saw himself in five years’ time (more…)

Getting Paid: Get Rid of Bad Debts

This time I thought it might be a good idea to talk about getting paid – given that the end of the financial year is fast approaching.

Bad debts are a negative asset – something that is working against you.  They are costing you heaps and you have to pay gst on the services provided while not having received payment from the client.

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Five Principles for Success – Part 5

Our fifth Success Principle relates to Attitude.

Why is this so important, you might ask?  Why indeed?

Have you ever been served in a shop where the shop assistant left you feeling like you had disturbed their conversation on the phone or that you were in the way or a nuisance and excess to their agenda?  How did that experience leave you feeling?

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Five Principles for Success – Part 4

Behavioural Flexibility – the ability to be flexible around what you do.

When your behaviour is rigid, you have always done it (whatever it may be) this way so why should you change?

Well that may be fine provided you are getting the results you want.  However, when you want to take your business, your relationship, your life to the next level, chances are you will be more successful when you decide to be more flexible.

A few weeks ago I was assisting a friend run her workshop.  (more…)

Five Principles for Success – Part 1

As I was thinking about what to write for my first newsletter “Success” sprang to mind.  We all want success and, in when you think about it, success is so subjective.  What success means to you is something different to what it means to me.

This is the first in a series of articles about the principles for success – for everyone.

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